The Sexcess System® is an IICT-accredited educational programme designed to help individuals and couples build healthier relationships through greater self-awareness, confidence, communication and connection.
Our Vision
To create a world where people replace shame with understanding, fear with confidence, and disconnection with authentic intimacy - empowering them to live and love more fully.
1st October 2026
5-Week Live Programme
Thursdays | 7.30pm – 9.30pm - Live on Zoom
Full Programme Investment: £388
SPECIAL LAUNCH OFFER
Be among the founding cohort and save £150.
Launch Price: £238
Available for a limited time only.
The Programme Sessions
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STORY
Understand your narrative and the beliefs, messages and patterns that shape your identity, relationships and experience.
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SELF
Build self-awareness, self-worth and self-acceptance and strengthen your sense of identity, confidence and personal value.
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SENSATION
Reconnect with your body through mindful awareness. Cultivate presence, sensation awareness and a more comfortable relationship with yourself.
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SPEECH
Develop the confidence and language to express your needs, desires and boundaries clearly and authentically in your relationships.
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SIZZLE
Integrate everything you've discovered to create a life, relationships and intimacy that truly reflect who you are.
This Is For You If...
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You feel disconnected from yourself.
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You sense there's a gap between who you are and how you show up in relationships or intimate situations
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You're exploring your desires and identity.
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You want a safe, structured space to understand what you truly want.
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Patterns keep repeating in relationships.
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You recognise recurring dynamics, in communication, connection, or conflict, and are ready to understand them.
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You want more from intimacy and connection.
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You're curious about deeper presence, genuine pleasure and authentic expression in your relationships.
Important Information
WHEN AND WHERE
Every Thursday evening - 7.30pm – 9.30pm (UK)
Live on Zoom - 5 sessions over 5 weeks.
Dates: 1st, 8th, 15th, 22nd, 29th
Please ensure you can attend these dates. It is not recorded.
YOUR CAMERA
All you need is a device and an internet connection.
Your camera can be on or off—the choice is always yours.
THE STURCTURE
Between 6 and 24 participants. Singles and couples are welcome. A supportive group of people, all investing in the most important relationship they'll ever have. the one with themselves.
CONFIDENTIALITY
Everything shared within the programme remains confidential.
What happens in the room, stays in the room.
NOT RECORDED
Sessions are live only and are not recorded.
This is intentional. It creates a genuinely confidential space where everyone can show up honestly, knowing what is shared stays within the group.
MATERIALS
Every session includes professionally designed worksheets and handouts to support your learning and reflection.
THE BENEFITS
Recognise the beliefs and patterns that have shaped your relationships and how you express yourself.
Develop compassion for your own experiences and greater capacity for vulnerability and trust.
Develop clearer, more honest ways of expressing your needs, desires and boundaries with others.
Reclaim your sense of personal power, body acceptance and authentic self-expression.
Build presence, body awareness and a more positive relationship with sensuality and pleasure.
Complete a personal reflection portfolio and receive a Level 1 certificate.
Meet Your Host,
Lorraine Chapman
Lorraine Chapman is an award-winning keynote speaker, number one bestselling author, columnist, empowerment coach, tantra teacher and healer and the creator of The Sexcess System®.
The Sexcess System® was not built in a classroom. It was not designed from research or theory. It was built from the inside out, from two decades of lived experience that most people would never speak about out loud.
For over twenty years, Lorraine lived a double life. A senior educator by day, privately navigating the depths of sex, intimacy and desire and quietly battling depression and shame. She knew what it felt like to perform a version of herself for the world whilst something else entirely was happening underneath. She knew the weight of pretending. The cost of hiding. The longing for permission to simply be herself.
In 2016 she stepped out of the double life and into her truth.
What followed was a decade of deep training in mindfulness, tantra, somatic bodywork, energy healing, coaching and professional speaking and the gradual emergence of a framework built on everything she had lived, learned and transformed.
Not borrowed wisdom. Earned truth.
That framework is The Sexcess System®.
The 5 sessions at the heart of the programme are not theoretical. Every single one of them, Story, Self, Sensation, Speech and Sizzle, came directly from Lorraine's own journey from shame and disconnection to authenticity, confidence and genuine connection.
Her story has been recognised with multiple awards, including a Lifetime Achievement Award in 2025, and featured across media and in her published autobiography. She is also a qualified Sundoor Firewalk Instructor and Empowerment Coach, trained in the belief that transformation happens not just in the mind but in the body. Which is exactly what The Sexcess System® is designed to do.
This is not a programme delivered from a distance by someone who has only read the theory. This is a programme created by someone who has lived every stage of it and come out the other side.
Lorraine created the space she wished had existed for her. That space is The Sexcess System®. And it is waiting for you.
Testimonials
As one of life's cynics, I didn't quite know what to expect, but I was pleasantly surprised. The atmosphere was friendly and welcoming, the other members were lovely people. Lorraine herself clearly has a great deal of experience in this area and conducted the workshop beautifully. I came away from this feeling calmer, happier and with real tools for making my life better.
Excellent content, delivered in a combination of mindful, restful and yet thought provoking way by a lady who clearly knows her stuff and has empathy with her audience...
Such a lovely group. Each session was engaging without being heavy. Some things were new to me and some were delicious little reminders of things I'd learnt before but had forgotten to implement. Just what I needed at a crazy time. I really looked forward to sessions 2, 3 and 4...... Having to be honest, I was a little apprehensive as to what I had joined up to, before session one, but the breathwork session was superb.
I absolutely loved it. The course was well thought through with a different theme each week. I loved the mix of activities, meditations and discussion.
Both during and after the workshop I felt that the experiences I encountered in the meditations were exactly right for me. I felt both positive and uplifted and was very much at ease with myself, something which I'm experiencing in my life right now! Really glad I attended, so thank you Lorraine!
I thoroughly enjoy your style of presentation.....you deliver with humour.....no preaching just encouragement. The space felt very safe and supportive and even though we were only a group for four weeks it was easy to get to know others....
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Email
info@lorrainechapman.com
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Phone
07503767172
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Address
326 Red Hill
Wateringbury
Kent . ME18 5LD
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